In memory of Lillian Havenga: October 22, 2022 ~ September 2, 2021
For support while walking,
she leaned on the walls
of her dementia,
with small, shuffling steps.
Eventually, the walls
closed in around her,
until she no longer
felt stable when standing.
Lying on her back
in the narrow bed,
she hopes the ceiling
will hold back the walls.
She tries to accept
this next stage of life;
with diminishing dignity
and just a touch of grace.
© 2025 Richard Havenga
I have so much space
out here in the quiet country.
Over ten acres of our own woods
to walk, to explore, to learn.
Sometimes during my walks,
I just stop and contemplate
the blessings of this experience.
Each season provides a reason
to get outside and love this place.
I'm learning to listen better.
Not just to our loyal birds,
that I truly love,
but also listening to the quiet.
A privileged pleasure
that I always treasure.
I promise to take care of this space
and to share what I learn with grace,
until I can no longer roam,
and I'm brought back home;
returned to my starting place.
© 2025 Richard Havenga
Photo Locations:
1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. & 7. All photographed in our Home Woods.
